About




Hi!! I'm Kamaria, also known as Kam and I'm really glad you came to my blog. Whether by accident or on purpose, I hope you find something here that brings a smile to your face. Even if it's at my expense. Really, I don't mind - my husband (Sweets) and teen daughter (My Unicorn) laugh at my expense for sport. I think my daughter is in the lead since she's seen me try on a bathing suit.

I'm one the of the most random people I know. Somewhere between being diagnosed with HIV and all the events since then, I've learned to embrace life and all it has to throw at me, adjusting my responses accordingly.

I've been told I'm encouraging. I agree, I love to see people happy and going after their hearts desires. I hurt when I see people miserable and can do something about it. If you come to me for advice though, be sure that you don't just want me to tell you what you want to hear. I am not good at that. Cursed with keepin' it real back in high school. Doctors haven't been able to do a thing.

Some friends say that I tend to be moody. I also agree. I'm an empath. Still figuring out how to function in that. I've heard it's a life long process that will probably remain a mystery since I'm also categorized as an INFJ in the Myers Briggs scale.

My mom tells me I'm smart and pretty. Whether this is an obligatory maternal compliment or not, I'll take it. Some days. Looking back on some teenage journal entries and photos, it's fair to take this issue into question.

My therapist tells me I'm brave. Not sure if that's a method of confidence boosting, but the fact that I just publicly admitted I'm in therapy seems to make that legit.

I'd like people to believe that I love the Lord with all my heart and that it's evident through my life...just don't examine it before I've had my coffee.

So that's it. Well, for this layer. I'm more than just an HIV advocate. Sometimes I write about being a mom. Sometimes I write about being a wife. Or a student. Or an advocate. Or clothes. And there will probably always be coffee involved.

Enjoy!